NEW YORK Theyre young and old, doctors and churchgoers, gay and straight and those are just the men who have devoured oh-so-naughty Fifty Shades of Grey, an erotic trilogy that has earned millions of women fans in a matter of weeks.
Reading on iPads and Kindles or hurriedly picking up the books in stores, some didnt know about the romance part, thinking the surprise best-sellers by newcomer E L James would be more American Psycho than steamy Harlequin.
Others knew exactly what they were getting into, buying into the buzz since Vintage Books bought the rights, shoring up a story that began as Twilight fan fiction and putting it out in handy trade paperback on April 3.
Theres flogging and bondage and sex toys. And a steely control freak of a gazillionaire Christian Grey, a damaged sexual dominant who enlists the virginal (not for long) college coed Anastasia Steele for rough-but-consensual role play.
Jeremiah Wirth, a grad student and Iraqi war vet in Maine, said the opening book was nothing short of a life-changer. He read it on a business trip to magical Hawaii, returning home to Bangor a better man.
I was away from my girlfriend. I was lonely, and I was reading this book in this beautiful place, and I thought it would be something fun and easy, said the 26-year-old Kurt Vonnegut and Star Wars fan, just a year younger than the fictional Grey.
People hear about flogging and stuff like that in this book, and they dont get it. I became emotionally invested in the love story, especially from the females perspective. That was important to me, to put myself in Anas shoes. It was overwhelming, and Ill never forget it, Wirth said.
He was moved to send James an email, apologizing for assuming that your book was anything less than it is: wonderful. And she responded, his deep interest surprising even her, given that you dont fit the demographic of the readership (women 17 to 100 years) but I am delighted that you enjoyed it.
The book didnt shatter 66-year-old David Shobin in Smithtown, N.Y. The semi-retired gynecologist and newbie romance reader who writes medical thrillers on the side picked up the first Fifty Shades to see for himself what all the hullabaloo was about.
He liked it well enough and received hundreds of responses to a funny review he wrote on Amazon.com.
At my age, my arthritis flared up just reading about Anas sexual gymnastics, Shobin wrote, adding that her pyrotechnic climaxes resembled repetitively watching porn: after a while, it leaves me bored and yawning.
He conceded a definite infectiousness to the plot but found it hard to believe Ana had absolutely no sexual experience before literally stumbling into Greys office to interview him for her college newspaper.
I had an intellectual curiosity, Shobin said in an interview. I dont quite know what to make of this sort of sexual activity but as a love story, it did succeed.
Will his wife be reading?
Probably not, Shobin said. I told her a little bit about the bondage part, and she showed very little interest in that, so it was a short conversation. She mainly reads memoirs.
John Puckett, who is gay, spared no superlative from San Dimas, Calif., where he works as a theatrical manager about 20 miles east of downtown Los Angeles. Usually preferring autobiography and true crime stories, hes now reading all three Fifty Shades books for a second time.
I was pretty much hooked from the beginning, said Puckett, 45. It grabs a hold of you, and it doesnt let go.
Most appealing, he said, is Greys slowly unpeeled vulnerability, that lost, hurt little boy who craves nothing more than to be deserving of unconditional love.
The books are flying off the shelves at the Books & Books stores in south Florida. James opens her first U.S. tour in Miami on Sunday. Movie rights have already been sold, and the guessing game is on for who will play the lusty lead characters.
I first found out about the books back in December, from men who wanted to buy them for their wives, said Mitchell Kaplan, who owns the Florida stores. You really got the sense that these books are helping relationships in some way.
Dr. Mehmet Oz sees that potential, dedicating a recent show to exploring the books with an audience of women and, yes, men who have read them.
This woman has gotten people talking about sex in a way that no one else could get them to talk about it, he said Tuesday night from the red carpet of a gala honoring Time magazines 100 most influential people in the world James included with the likes of President Barack Obama and Rihanna.
Are sex lives changing, marriages evolving?
Theyre not tying up their women. Its not about sadism, Oz said of men drawn to the books. What it is about is people having an honest conversation about what sex should be like, what makes it feel better, what are the timing issues, how do we make it an important issue in our life rather than an afterthought. When the guys get into it, I know weve got something going.
James, a Londoner and former TV producer with two teenager sons, didnt attend the event but has called the books her mid-life crisis. She replaced her original Twi-names as her story jumped from free downloads promoted on fan sites to not-free e-books and hard copy from an Australian publisher, then finally Vintage, the paperback home to Toni Morrison and Albert Camus.
Bob James, an ex-Marine and dad of four grown children, has heard of those two, but hes also a regular romance reader and a Twilight fan. He first read Fifty Shades when it was still fan fiction, coming across it on Facebook and a site for Twi-moms.
Most people who criticize it havent read it, said the 50-year-old James, who is not related to the author. They take things out of context and just pick the sex scenes out. I liked the romance. Ana is drawing him away from all the bondage stuff.
His wife, a regular volunteer at their church, rolled her eyes when he read her excerpts, but not the sex parts, he said. Has he picked up any marital pointers from the attentive yet troubled Grey?
I learned that I do need to show more of a protective nature toward her in public, said James, in Manassas, Va. Theres something thats drawing women to read it, and it would behoove a man to know what that is.
Associated Press Writer Nicole Evatt in New York contributed to this report.