Are you at a loss for ideas of gifts to give this holiday season? Remember that gifts can take shape in many forms. And the greatest gifts come from the heart.
Sometimes, a meaningful gift is materialistic. It’s the item that catches your eye and immediately makes you think of someone you care about. It’s the moose head glassware that a hard-core fan of “Christmas Vacation” is thrilled to receive. Or, the yearly birthday cards, designed by your favorite artist. To watch a loved one open a gift and light up with laughter, or tears of happiness, is a moment to cherish.
There’s a reason finances get pushed to the limits this month – it feels good to give.
Then there are times when giving can feel a bit obligatory. Ouch! The one-two punch of a gift purchased under this circumstance. Not only is it an unnecessary financial strain, but the emotional reward of giving under these conditions can leave something to be desired.
Take a moment to weigh the pros and cons of these purchases. Ideally, you give a gift because it aligns with your values. Because the truth is, a decision to buy one thing, may necessitate giving up something else.
Of course, not all gifts require monetary investment. A heartfelt gift is any one that takes into consideration what is really needed, or wouldn’t be purchased, by the recipient. It’s a good opportunity to literally think outside the box.
During an exchange of texts this week, my mom informed me what she really wanted for the holidays was for us to give where we live. Give by purchasing an item from a locally owned store. Give to a local charity in the form of gently used items, money or time. Reach out and check in with a neighbor, then boldly do the same with a stranger. Craft a homemade card made with love, share a bag of groceries or bring a donation to Toys for Tots.
A strange thing happens when we give because we want to. It’s contagious, but in a way we joyfully embrace. You may not know this, but giving someone what they need is really a gift of comfort, security, community and hope, all wrapped into one. Uncle Eddie said it best: “It’s the gift that keeps on giving.”
On the chance you missed the From the Extension Office column last week, or you would like a reminder, La Plata County Extension has a gift for you. You can accept this gift in one of two ways. One, request a holiday meal for your household to enjoy on either Dec. 23 or Dec. 24. Alternatively, give where you live and make a contribution toward a holiday meal, gas cards, utilities and shelter. Whether you request to receive or donate, you become part of a community where everyone benefits from the long-lasting gift of giving.
Nicole Clark is the family and consumer science agent for the La Plata County Extension Office. Reach her at nicole.clark@colostate.edu or 382-6461.
Nicole Clark
Holiday meals
The La Plata County Extension Office will be making holiday meals Dec. 23 and Dec. 24.
To request a meal:
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To give a meal:
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